HUSBAND

Husband
I was 16 when I married my husband he was 21 we were to young to know what married was all about but then I thought I new it all. Now I think we would have had a better chance of it lasting if we had waited. The babies started coming one after the other 4 in 6 years I was at home with kids and he worked. He was in the navy so we traveled a lot. One thing I can say I did love him and still do to this day. Now we sit and talk but before no talking or listing on either side we both wanted things our own way .We lasted 17 years, if I knew then what I know now I would have never left I would have tried to worked it out because I found no one better,The married ended bad and we did not speak to each other for years but now we are older and wiser we can talk about anything we have put the past in the past. I had surgery and he has been here for me.Now things are great between us just friends and we will aways be just friends nothing else. If the drinking and fighting didn’t start we would be still be together because we had the love but couldn’t work out the being true, trusting and how to work out your problems without fighting. As seniors now we look back and see we were going about it all wrong but you have to make your own mistakes that’s how we learn but it feels good to be able to sit and talk and I can depend on him and he can depend on me. This came to my mind because when some is wrong he is always there or if it’s a family thing he is going to be there I let a good man go because of childish ways but it’s good now I can still have his friendship with out the bull shit[smile] takes it going back this morning.
Thanks for the memories
QUEENBEBOP
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